Is the right way to beat the child to teach? No Never It should be remembered that, in the eyes of the children in the eyes of the Shari'ah, they are free from singers and liabilities and accountability. They are physically weak and mentally soft. So they have to deal soft and soft with them. They should teach them with affection and affection. In this case, avoid humiliation and tenderness and adopt humility and gentleness.
Hadrat Aisha Siddika At the end of a long Hadith narrated from'Abdullah Allah's Apostle, 'Allah has not sent me as hard-hitting and hard-hearted; Rather, he has sent it as a simple-minded teacher. - Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 1478
Imam Ghazali Raha explained this Hadith. Said that this Hadith proves that the errors of the student should be corrected with tenderness and generosity as well as kindness and mercy. No rebuke and blasphemy. - And Rasulul Muallim, p. 11
In another Hadith, Hadrat Mu'awiyah bin Hakam r. I used to say that I was praying with Allah's Messenger . Suddenly one person (in Prayer) sneezed. In response, I said 'Yarhamuk Allah'. People are looking at me. I said, what happened to you? Why are you looking at me like this? People pushed me to their thighs and indicated me to be calm and quiet. I was silent. Allah's Messenger (াল) finished his prayer with the salam. My parents are devoted to him, a teacher who has such a beautiful and beautiful teacher like him who has not seen anyone before him and has not even seen him. By Allah! He did not beat me, nor rebuked me, nor rebuked me; He said, 'Our prayers are not suitable for Manasseh. (That is not to say such a thing in the Prayer.) Rather, it is Tasbih, the takbeer and the Qur'an in the Tellawah. - Sahih Muslim,
Because of nature, children are no exception to others. So teaching children is very difficult. Better to be calm than the calmness and laziness among them. It is also very difficult to control them. Sometimes the situation becomes such that the anger of the teacher is created in the teacher and the situation of beating is created. Should not be punished in this situation. Do not punish at this time; Rather, you will remove your anger from silent silence. Then decide what to do. This is the Islamic teaching and religious instruction of Islam.
Hadrat Abdullah bin Abbas It was narrated that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Teach, easy and gentle; Do not act rude. Be silent when you're angry. Be silent when you're angry. When you are angry, keep quiet (say three times) .- Musnad Ahmad, Hadith: 25556, 2136; Musnaf Ibn Abi Shaibah, Hadith: 25888; Musnad Bazzar, Hadith: 152, 153; Musnad Abu Daud Tawlisi, Hadith: 2608; Al-Adabul Mufrad, Hadith: 245,
Mufti Muhammad Shafi Rah. It is very dangerous to beat children. Other sins can be forgiven by repentance. But it is very difficult to get the forgiveness of children if they are wronged. Because it is the slave's right. The person's right is not forgiven by repentance only. Unless the person whose right was lost was forgiven. Meanwhile, the person who has been wronged is a nonbeliever. Forbidden people are not acceptable in the eyes of the Shari'ah. It is very difficult to get the forgiveness of the crime. And so should be careful about beating children and using them badly. -Islami Majlis, Mufti Muhammad Taki Usmani.
Allah Ta'ifik give us the correct understanding.
Imam Ghazali Raha explained this Hadith. Said that this Hadith proves that the errors of the student should be corrected with tenderness and generosity as well as kindness and mercy. No rebuke and blasphemy. - And Rasulul Muallim, p. 11
In another Hadith, Hadrat Mu'awiyah bin Hakam r. I used to say that I was praying with Allah's Messenger . Suddenly one person (in Prayer) sneezed. In response, I said 'Yarhamuk Allah'. People are looking at me. I said, what happened to you? Why are you looking at me like this? People pushed me to their thighs and indicated me to be calm and quiet. I was silent. Allah's Messenger (াল) finished his prayer with the salam. My parents are devoted to him, a teacher who has such a beautiful and beautiful teacher like him who has not seen anyone before him and has not even seen him. By Allah! He did not beat me, nor rebuked me, nor rebuked me; He said, 'Our prayers are not suitable for Manasseh. (That is not to say such a thing in the Prayer.) Rather, it is Tasbih, the takbeer and the Qur'an in the Tellawah. - Sahih Muslim,
Because of nature, children are no exception to others. So teaching children is very difficult. Better to be calm than the calmness and laziness among them. It is also very difficult to control them. Sometimes the situation becomes such that the anger of the teacher is created in the teacher and the situation of beating is created. Should not be punished in this situation. Do not punish at this time; Rather, you will remove your anger from silent silence. Then decide what to do. This is the Islamic teaching and religious instruction of Islam.
Hadrat Abdullah bin Abbas It was narrated that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Teach, easy and gentle; Do not act rude. Be silent when you're angry. Be silent when you're angry. When you are angry, keep quiet (say three times) .- Musnad Ahmad, Hadith: 25556, 2136; Musnaf Ibn Abi Shaibah, Hadith: 25888; Musnad Bazzar, Hadith: 152, 153; Musnad Abu Daud Tawlisi, Hadith: 2608; Al-Adabul Mufrad, Hadith: 245,
Mufti Muhammad Shafi Rah. It is very dangerous to beat children. Other sins can be forgiven by repentance. But it is very difficult to get the forgiveness of children if they are wronged. Because it is the slave's right. The person's right is not forgiven by repentance only. Unless the person whose right was lost was forgiven. Meanwhile, the person who has been wronged is a nonbeliever. Forbidden people are not acceptable in the eyes of the Shari'ah. It is very difficult to get the forgiveness of the crime. And so should be careful about beating children and using them badly. -Islami Majlis, Mufti Muhammad Taki Usmani.
Allah Ta'ifik give us the correct understanding.
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